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10 Lifestyles Of Hearty Women

Submitted by on September 22, 2009 – 5:30 pmOne Comment



What do you do when you behold most beautiful and graceful women’s? I want straightforward answers. Sometimes you applaud her poise, sometimes feel jealous of her beauty, and sometimes continually run the trains of brain mulling over her beauty secrets. However your inner self covets that attractiveness and for achieving persuasive beauty, you persistently ponder her beauty secrets? You feel that might be it is in her hereditary genes? Might be she is lucky enough” or it is the result of sticking to a diet? Actual, truth that lies behind prettiness is plain lifestyle that has the potent to keep you physically and mentally pink and healthy. So, for achieving adorable beauty, I have culled some exclusive tips right from healthy exercises to good diet. So let’s check them out

Invest in yourself:
Women’s behavior has developed a pattern of splurging in others needs and desires. Because of their sensitive nature that is inclined and concerned more about their loved one’s, they do not invest in their needs and if they do so they find it as luxury explains Debra Engle, proprietor of Innergardener.com. She further recommends to investing in yourself because it can enhance your fitness and well-being. Ultimately, your look will get a great appearance, mood will turn happier and you start building a new perspective of your own. So, why not pamper yourself with a bunch of fresh flowers or something like classes that help you build your career or something more that advances your personality?

Warm up your brain muscles:
Neurobiologist Lawrence Katz enlightens by sharing her views that cognitive exercises such as ‘Neurobics’ helps in stimulating new brain connections which turns stronger and resists the psychological effects of aging. Neurobics uses your five senses in such a manner that they turn your nerves stronger and they become efficient in preserving the cell receivers for staying younger and stronger. For arousing them, switch to something irregular habits like turn to a new habit like dressing or bathing in dark, wear your watch on the opposite wrist, experiment some new dishes, try out new perfumes every morning etc.

Practice random acts of courage:
What I want to express through this point is open up and extend on your limitations frankly. As Suze Orman rightly pens in her book ‘Women and Money,’ “Fear is usually what stands between us and our courage. We’re afraid to rock the boat. We’re afraid of confrontation. We’re afraid to upset someone. We’re afraid we’ll lose our job. We’re afraid he’ll divorce us. We’re afraid our kids won’t love us. We’re afraid of what others may think of us.”

Stepping in some risky things like speaking up your views and thoughts to your boss, going solo for a movie, standing on your own instinct to lend a helping hand can lead to more courageous acts like venturing to some new destination for traveling all alone, seeking for a hike from your boss or anything better than these. All such motivating acts will eventually boost your courage, advance self-respect and ultimately you will go ahead in a blissful path.

Befriend your bad feelings:
Many individuals staying amidst us pretend to be happy when they are not, everyone is facing some or other pressures from things that are occurring in their day-to-day life. For instance, many women’s don’t enjoy their status of sitting between the four walls, taking care of their home or children. They are fed up with this life and continue to be depressed; therefore life coach Susan suggests “There may be some value in letting the guilt ‘rest’ and then asking it, ‘Why are you here? How can I be helpful to you? You can stay for (x amount of time), but then it’s time for you to go. She adds “Give yourself space to feel both your negative and positive emotions.” Sharing space with your feelings till a specific time can make you well-balanced and keep calm your stressed mind.

Find your exercise personality:
First and foremost key factor to keep in your mind before choosing a particular exercise as a part of routine is to find the perfect exercise that is appropriate for your personality. Pierce Howard, Ph.D, reports “The stress of engaging in exercise that is not of our choosing can outweigh its health benefits,” in his book ‘The Owner’s Manual for the Brian.’ Don’t workout with exercises that are agitating you, because it could ultimately lead for negative repercussions rather than providing you with any good. So, don’t force yourself to adapt to things like swimming, running, cycling etc. similar to your acrobat friend because these helps him to stay fit. Remember that each one is different from others, so what may suit your friend, essentially may not suit you or vice versa. Go for something wiser, try different exercises candidly. And if negative thoughts tend to enter your mind, just flush them out of your life. Instead extract fun and robust body from your exercise.

Take laughter seriously:
Laughter is the root cause of happiness, seriously don’t take it lightly. It has same effects as exercise, as it is helpful in burning calories. Psychologist and laugh therapist Steve Wilson explains “The effects of laughter and exercise are very similar, adding laughter to familiar movements, such as waving your arms, activates just about every human physiologic system, similar to traditional exercise.” Not only these it also has positive effects in our body as it escalates the level of Endorphins which are helpful in alleviating pain, stress and fortifies the immune system. So, laugh at regular intervals because it is as healthy as eating an apple everyday. Carry on with rides of laughter ha.ha.ha.haaa…

Stop and smell the lemons:
Make lemon a part of your life because it could bestow in your life high-spirited energy and healthiness. It possesses power which can invigorate your immune systems. Just a scent of lemon can stir your nervous systems; it directly affects your neurotransmitters to stimulate you with energy. Also another research carried at the Department of Psychiatry at the Ohio State University reported that smell of lemon oils can elevate the positive stimulus in your body by advancing the levels of serotonin and norepinephrine in the brains. So, now you understood the significance of lemon in your life. From henceforth, make use of lemons in your diet as well as daily routine miscellaneous like fresheners, lemon oils, lemon soaps or perfumes; this will stimulate chirpiness and liveliness in and around you.

Learn to love your work:
The website careerbuilder.com narrated that about 84% of Americans are unhappy with their jobs. If you too are a part of that, then note meticulously expert views by psychotherapist Beth Mares. He suggests finding what perturbs you the most? Is it that you feel overexploited, underpaid, unappreciated or underutilized? Mares adds “Besides looking for new work, you could learn to say no, refuse to take things personally, or acquire new job skills, another option is to focus on the reasons you’re there.” Also career expert Marcus Buckingham recommends applying your strengths and managing your weaknesses. Try to delight from everything you get engaged in, to motivate yourself recollect the aspirations that you have set for yourself. Concentrate on your work and get the most out of it.

Socialize for your mental health:
Psychologist Oscar Ybarra from Institute for Social Research shares “In our study, socializing was just as effective as more traditional kinds of mental exercise in boosting memory and intellectual performance.” Interacting with people just for 10 minutes is as effective as solving brain puzzles or some kind of intellectual activities. Also Nicholas Epley, an assistant professor at the University of Chicago adds some interesting details by pointing that loneliness can lead to morbidity or mortality and is more harmful than cigarette smoking. Also loneliness and isolation which are the major factors for increasing blood pressure, anxiety and aging can be thrust out by mingling with your social groups. I know, you have lots of friends so what’s the use unless and until, you talk and enjoy with them. So get along buddies to save your friends.

Take your financial temperature regularly:

It is believed that how we spend our money reveals our relationship with ourselves. Actually, it is a manifestation of how we identify and value ourselves. Orman in ‘Women and Money’ publishes that “We have to develop a healthy, honest relationship with our money.” Check out your habits that how you spend your money and find where you do stand in your own eyes? For this keep an eye on your incoming and outgoing habits like accounts, life insurance, retirement funds, credit cards, home insurance and household budget. For bringing the feeling of self-esteem and control over things, observe your new spending habits and income frequently every month.

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